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2. juuli 2018, 21:00

SEKSIEKSPERT: 11-aastastele koolilastele tuleb õpetada masturbeerimist! (122)

Sõnakas seksiekspert Nadia Bokody usub, et koolid peaksid ajaga kaasas käima, mistõttu tuleks juba varakult lastele õpetada, kuidas masturbeerida.

Seksiekspert usub, et koolihariduses ei pöörata seksile piisavalt tähelepanu, vahendab Mirror.

Tema arvates tuleks juba 11-aastastele lastele õpetada ja rääkida eneserahuldamisest.

 

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"Kas see meile meeldib või mitte, aga lapsed seksivad," selgitab Nadia, et sageli on tegu kaitsmata vahekorraga. Lisaks ei mõista osalised seksist sel vanuses midagi.

Ja põhjuseks peab ta seda, et endiselt peetakse seksi häbiväärseks asjaks.

Et lapsel tekiks avatud ja normaalne suhtumine ja arusaam seksi, siis ei tohiks ta oma keha ja seksuaalsust häbeneda.

Lahenduseks peabki ta seda, et koolis tuleks neid harida alustuseks masturbeerimise teemal.

"Masturbeerimine on kõige ohutum ja tervislikum tegevus, mida noor inimene saab teha privaatselt oma magamistoas. Ja ometigi ei räägita sel teemal, kuigi see võiks päästa neid suguhaigustest ja teistest traumadest," avaldab seksiekspert.

Mida arvad sina? Kas kool peaks noori rohkem valmistama ette eluks täiskasvanuna?

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